Big Breasts, Fat Bellies: The Hypocrisy of Beauty

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"The only way to make 10 pounds of fat instantly attractive is to put a nipple on it." -- unknown comedian

Haha. That joke reminds me of a woman I knew in college who had succumbed to the freshman 15 and was well along on her sophomore 30.

She would stick her belly way out round and full, then smile and say, "I'm not getting fat. I'm just growing another breast. And it's a big 'un. Give me a beer."

Of course, I find all fat attractive and indeed erotic, but the quote above shows how narrow our definition of beauty has become. Many men (and women) really love to look at breasts, and what they like the most is the roundness, the plumpness of them. At the same time, many people accept society's notion that plumpness is not so great a thing when it comes to the waistline and lower.

Many people fantasize about impossibly huge breasts even, and there are a zillion morphs on the internet which attest to that. And I know many women who really enjoy seeing other women's breasts. And, of course, some even well-endowed women will make themselves larger through dangerous surgeries. Many men love them big, and they approve of bigger and bigger. At the same time, many of these same men are negative about big bellies, thighs, hips.

And what are we saying, men, when we say we desire this look?

That we want women to put themselves in danger, that we want them to hurt, to undergo the knife? How cruel!

If you love big breasts, you should also love a potbelly and wide hips and thick thighs, because it generally comes in a package all together. A curvy woman is genereally curvy all over, and if you don't like that, then you really want women to hurt themselves -- for what? Your own selfishness!

There are very few women with huge breasts who do not also have at least a little belly. It's entirely natural, and if you don't like it, then you must not love how women naturally look. And I'm not saying there's anything wrong with breasts at all! I love them as much as any man (or woman) possibly could.

What's wrong is society and media notions of beauty.

Probably some message from our childhood makes us find breasts so appealing and erotic. But basically, outside of their purpose for nourishing babies, what are breasts but big round balls of delicious fat?

Yet, move that fat just a few inches south, and many people are disgusted.

Go figure. Humans are about the craziest people in the universe. Me, I love women's curves no matter where they may appear.

Have a great day, and enjoy life to the fullest!

NOTE:  I wrote this a little more than four years ago.  Resurrecting it now because of some discussion on this topic among fellow deviantartists.

When I originally posted this, it was in Dimensions.  Read there for some amazing feedback from readers:

www.dimensionsmagazine.com/for…
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pikuu-chii's avatar
Aww ^u^ I feel personally happy about this, it shows not all men and women are obsessed and obsessed with the twig look, and that makes me happy because i am certainly not as twig, never will be, but hey i love bigger women i mean look at it this way: there's more of them to love! i mean my girlfriend isn't as skinny as others but i love her just the same. Excellent job sir, added to my favorites :D